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Practical Aspects of Polygamy
Samuel Chapman
Tuesday, February 14, 2006 Register and Join our Online Community & Forums for Free.
A Great way to meet lots of muslims and learn about Islam. The benefits polygamy has for women and the controls it places on men.
Benefits For Women
Being able to marry the men who attract most women means they don’t have to settle just for what’s left after other women have the best pickings. Having the possibility that a husband can remarry without divorce extends practical security to a woman. She needn’t worry about losing her husband and income as she loses her looks, because if her husband is attracted by a younger woman, he doesn’t even have to think about leaving his wife. Polygamy removes the pressure on a husband to commit adultery, and removes damaging deceit from a marriage. Polygamy provides a method where a woman can have a female friend for life as well as a husband. Polygamy therefore provides more people and a better chance of meeting diverse needs. Polygamy provides a potential for at least three adult incomes, reducing state dependence and the fear of unemployment.
Controls Placed On Men
Polygamy reduces the number of women who are available. Currently, with more women than men, this ‘cheapens’ women. With less women available their ‘value’ goes up. In other words, polygamy makes men have to try harder and do better with women if they are to win them in competition with other men. From allaahuakbar.net |