So it was ‘eid and I was walking to a family get-together and one of my mother-in-law’s neighbours calls out mockingly to me, “Hey! Nice dress!” A reference to my white thobe; your standard ‘looks weird – must comment’ reaction. The thobe still isn’t that common in the UK but I guess as I was born a Scotsman I should be used to those type of remarks, as a similar response often meets a person wearing a kilt (which I only wore once, at a wedding and pre-Islām).
The one difficulty that I personally find when wearing a thobe is that it takes me a while to mentally adjust to the shortening of the step that it enforces. It’s easy for a person to be accustomed to their regular capabilities and so when being able to take large steps is suddenly taken from you it can require a rethink. For example, when a bus driver does his usual pull up in the vague vicinity of a bus stop without making much effort to reduce the gap between him and the kerb, an ordinarily undaunting leap for the pavement can take on a new degree of difficulty. It’s not normally until I’m mid-step that I remember the thobe, which tightens to let me know that it’s as far I’m allowed to go in one motion, I experience a Wile E. Coyote moment in mid-air as I look down to check what’s beneath me, shortly before landing with my foot in the kerbside puddle.
On ‘umrah we were busy buying different coloured and designed thobes and would wear them out each night, our host eventually explained to us that most people tend to wear only white thobes where we were (which is actually the preferred colour in the Sunnah anyway “Wear white clothes, for they are the best of your clothes…” (al-Tirmidhi)) and when you differ from this there’s a tendency to look like you’ve come out wearing your pyjamas.
Having said that I don’t tend to wear a thobe that often, not because I’ve anything against them per se, I just feel more comfortable in my regular clothes and provided what I wear conforms to the shar’ī stipulations for a Muslim male, I don’t see any problem in doing this.
These include:
1) He shouldn’t wear gold or silk;
2) The clothes should not be so tight as to reveal his ‘awrah.
3) It shouldn’t be clothing that is unique to the non-Muslims.
4) It shouldn’t resemble women’s clothing.
5) The garment should not hang below the ankle in length.
This last specification can, however, gain a person notoriety living in the West. I think I’ve heard the full range of insults “Check the ankle riders”, “Flying half mast”, “What’s up with your trousers, did they have an argument with your shoes?” I can remember this anti-short-trouser sentiment being rife when I was at school, although in those days I’d be giving rather than receiving it. The school playground code of conduct seemed to oblige the mocking of anyone whose outgrowing of his clothes had become noticeable by his trousers starting to creep up his legs. The disdain that non-Muslims have for ankle length trousers/pants seems to have even lent its name to a font:
But considering the stern warning against letting the lower garment fall below the ankle, I’d genuinely prefer the notoriety of a being an ‘ankle rider’ over the threats of punishment that accompanies being a musbil (someone who lowers their garment below their ankles).
The Messenger of Allāh (Sallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said:
“The part of the izār (garment) which hangs below the ankles is in the fire.” (Bukhari)
“O Sufyān bin Sahl, Do not lower your garment below your ankles because Allāh does not love the musbilīn (those who lower their garments below their ankles).” (Ibn Mājah)
I was approached by a manager at work who wanted a quiet word “What’s up with the short trousers?” he asked as he took me to one side. I explained that one of the stipulations for the dress of a Muslim male is that his garments (which would include trousers/pants) should not hang below the ankles. He replied that he’d thought I’d stuck my trousers in the tumble dryer and they’d shrunk from the heat and was going to offer me a new pair from the uniform stores; however, he seemed happy enough with the explanation and the topic never came up again.
Even when I was first issued my uniform I remember the strange looks I got when I came out of the changing room and returned to the issuing desk and said that everything was a good fit but the trousers were too long and could I have the size below please?
There are those who seem to restrict their adherence to this injunction to the prayer only. So you’ll see them in the masjid busy rolling up their trouser legs to make salāh and just as quickly roll them down again when it’s over. This behaviour may be due to the following of a weak hadīth in Abū Dawūd “Allāh does not accept the prayers from a man trailing his lower garment.” Or it could be because of other authentic hadīth such as “I heard Allāh’s Messenger (Sallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam) saying, ‘Anyone who conceitedly trails his izār during prayers Allāh has nothing to do with pardoning him and protecting him (from Hell or from bad deeds.)” (Abū Dawūd)
But the numerous ahādīth are general and compliance with this isn’t restricted to the salāh. Someone who takes this temporary approach needs to reflect upon another injunction where the Messenger of Allāh (Sallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam) prohibited a person to make kaft (draw cluster, pile up or band together) of their clothing before or during prayer. “I have been ordered (and thus this Ummah) to prostrate on seven bones: the forehead (along with the tip of the nose and he pointed towards his nose), both hands, both knees, and toes of both feet and not to tuck up (lā nakfutu) clothes and the hair.” (Bukhari)
Ensuring that a man’s garment (whether it be a thobe or trousers/pants) doesn’t fall below his ankles should be a permanent measure and not a quick bunching up of the trousers exclusively for the prayer. So what if it attracts stares in public from some quarters? I don’t see why someone, such as an employer or teacher, can reasonably object to a Muslim employee/student doing it. It’s not like having short trousers actually restricts the range of things you can do in life. Unless of course what you’re trying to do is eat at this restaurant:
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